I am attaching my piece in the L.A. Times today although according to the (now 57) on-line comments, I am once again entirely clueless and wrong-headed. But not just stupid, I'm accusatory, as well!
So be it. Sigh.
XO Your wrong-headed pal, Amy
P.S. Now, having actually read all 63 comments, I see that many of the commenters are arguing with each other. The mud flies!